7 Steps You Can Take So You Don’t Smell Like an Old Lady as You Age
”Eeeewww.
Who wants to smell like an old lady? First of all, let me say that I mean no disrespect to older people. I am one. In fact, experts say the potential for acquiring the ‘old person smell’ (it’s actually a recognized term) begins as early as 40.
Oo-oo that SMELL. Can’t you Smell That Smell?
You know what I’m talking about, right? The smell has been described as aged beer, greasy, cucumbers, old books, grassy, dull, or musty. It’s not like a gross, pinch your nose kind of smell, it just smells, well…old. It’s that indescribable smell you smell when you give Grandma a big hug. We call it “old people smell”, the Japanese have a word for it – “kareishuu” and have done extensive research on it.
What Causes It?
One cause, that is pretty much out of our control, is due to our aging skin. It’s a chemical thing. As we age, the oils and fatty acids that are excreted by our skin oxidizes more rapidly, and our older skin’s antioxidant defenses begin to deteriorate. When those excessive fatty acids mix with the air, it creates a substance called nonenal. Nonenal stinks.
Not having any knowledge of chemistry, my big question is…
Would taking antioxidants help slow down the production of nonenal?
If anyone has any insight on this, I’d love to hear your thoughts!
I Don’t Want To Smell. How Can I Fix It?
It is possible to somewhat decrease the amount of nonenal our body produces by trying to live a healthy lifestyle. You know, the norm…
- Getting enough sleep
- Regular exercise
- Healthy diet
- Not smoking
- Alcohol in moderation
It’s not only yourself but your surroundings that can contribute. Smells in your home can seep into your clothes and skin. Now those things we do have control over. Just being aware of them can be helpful to take steps to avoid them ourselves, or take action to resolve them if we’re caring for our aging parents or family members.
7 Ways To Get Rid of That ‘Old’ Smell
#1. Open Your Windows and Let Fresh Air In!
- Older people are afraid that if they open windows they’ll forget to close them, making them vulnerable to intruders.
- Older people don’t like drafts and seem to always be cold.
- PROBLEM: No fresh air can be a breeding ground for bacteria and mold growth, which create smells.
- SOLUTION: Do a window and door check each night before going to bed. Wear a sweater and warm fuzzy slippers around the house if you’re chilly.
#2. Keep Your House Clean
- Physical limitations may keep older people from thoroughly cleaning, or from cleaning at all. They may be embarrassed to admit to family, spouse or friends that they aren’t able to keep up with housekeeping.
- PROBLEM: Smells from spoiled food in kitchen. Dust throughout house. Mildew|mold & urine in bathrooms. Unchanged bedsheets full of dead skin, urine dribble, sweat.
- SOLUTION: If it’s not possible for the homeowner to clean, hire someone to come in once a week. If hiring someone isn’t an option, admit you’re not able and ask a family member to help. It’s important!
#3. Don’t Re-Wear Your Clothing
- Older people aren’t as active and not as likely to break a sweat. Because of this, they feel that outfit they wore today is good for another couple days ‘because they didn’t get it dirty’.
- They are very thrifty. Doing laundry less saves on soap.
- PROBLEM: A closet full of dirty clothes smells. Skin oils and leaked urine can permeate clothing. There are probably also shoes in that closet that need airing out. Stale pee and dirty, sweaty feet stink – yuck. Mothballs don’t fix the smell.
- SOLUTION: Wear clothes for one day only. Air out or replace old shoes. Hang a cedar strip in closet to freshen it up.
#4. Brush & Floss Your Teeth, or Check Dentures Regularly
- As we age, the mouth produces less saliva. Saliva cleans the mouth of food particles and bacteria. When your mouth gets dry, your breath gets bad. Older people tend to sleep with their mouths open, which also dries out the mouth.
- Older adults brush their teeth less often and not as thoroughly. Saving on toothpaste? Dentures, common in older people, if not taken care of or don’t fit correctly, trap food particles and can cause infection.
- Medical conditions such as acid reflux, common in older adults, brings bile and stomach acid into the esophagus creating a sour taste in the mouth.
- PROBLEM: BAD BREATH! Cozying up to grandma or grandpa for a kiss and getting assaulted with dragon breath is less than pleasant, and not something that’s looked forward to repeating.
- SOLUTION: Make sure the teeth, tongue and gums are brushed thoroughly every day and night. Floss teeth. If wearing dentures, pay attention to the recommended oral care given by the dentist. Visit the dentist regularly for teeth cleaning and oral evaluation.
#5. Drink Lots and Lots of Water!
- Water keeps our fluids moving. When we don’t drink enough, all our fluids become more concentrated (like canned orange juice before you add water). Our pee turns dark yellow and its strong odor stinks to high heaven. Our skin loses it’s moisture and flakes and peels. If we’ve eaten smelly food, i.e. garlic and onion, it seeps out our pores.
- PROBLEM: If our pee is smelly and we leak, it makes our clothes smell. Our skin will smell strongly of whaterever we may have eaten. It will also flake onto our clothes, carpet, bedsheets, etc. and if those things aren’t cleaned regularly, they’ll smell.
- SOLUTION: Well duh…DRINK A LOT OF WATER!
#6. Wash Your Body
- Older people, especially men, aren’t as interested in bathing. Those interviewed give several reasons. Some get anxious when getting in and out of the bath, and are afraid of falling in the shower. Especially those who live alone. Others seem to think of bathing as something you do only if you’re going out somewhere. Since they don’t go out as often, they think they can shower less. They justify this theory by explaining they don’t sweat much and don’t do activities that make them dirty. They feel that sponging off occasionallly does the trick.
- PROBLEM: The problem is obvious, right? Dead skin, leaked urine, the nonenal substance on the skin, inefficient toilet cleaning. Yeah. A sponge bath ain’t gonna cut it.
- SOLUTION: It’s got to be frustrating for older people because the fear of falling is real. It is widely known that most falls occur in the bathroom. And if they’re frail and alone, there’s no-one there to help them get back up. If this is the case, find someone to come to the home to help with a good scrubbing a few times a week and have them fill in with sponge baths the other days.
#7. Pack and Store With Care
- Older people accumulate a lifetime of ‘things’. It’s hard for us to part with anything as most are associated with memories. Unless there’s an issue with storage space, there’s no reason we shouldn’t be allowed to hang on to those things.
- PROBLEM: Old clothing, books, papers, linens and memorabilia smell musty. Especially if they’ve been stored for a long time incorrectly. My mother-in-law saved old perfume bottles in a dresser drawer. The cloyingly sweet smell was nauseating.
- SOLUTION: Repack. Wash clothing, then store between dryer sheets. Put dried lavender in breathable cotton or linen bags and add them to your storage containers. Set an open box of baking soda on closet floors, or hang a bag of cedar chips in closets.
If You’re a Frustrated Caretaker, Things To Keep in Mind…
It’s common for aging adults to experience loss of vision. So a clothing stain that goes unnoticed, or mold growing in the bathroom shower may just not have been seen, rather than a lack of concern that it’s there.
Studies also show there is a large decrease in older adults sense of smell. In fact, it’s shown that by your 70’s, you may have lost up to 75% of your sense of smell. So Grandma truly may not have smelled Max’s accident in the corner, and if her vision is impaired, she also may not have seen it.
At the same time, she may not be able to notice that she smells bad or that her house has an unpleasant odor.
We will all be old and struggling with our own issues in the not so distant future, so being patient and undersanding is important. We can only hope that someone will show us the same kindness and respect.
NOTE FROM AUTHOR:
After researching this post, I was left with two questions I couldn’t find answers to. (Sometimes my over-curious mind makes even ME crazy.)
1. Would taking antioxidants help slow down the production of nonenal? (If bumping up our antioxidant intake helps, I’m on it!)
2. Is there a skin or bath product that is effective in combating that old person smell?
Sometimes I just can’t leave things alone. After writing those questions, I just had to know, so I went on my own search…
I discovered that researchers found that persimmon helps reduce the production of nonenal. The fruit and it’s extract has been used in Japan for years to combat body odor, and products containing persimmon extract are sold as ‘anti-aging’ products. So off I went to find them.
Woo hoo! I found the persimmon soap, and there are tons of reviews saying it works beautifully.
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TO CLEAN YOUR BODY…
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For Your Breath…
This mouthwash is rated as one of the best for bad breath treatment and plaque removal (which contributes to bad breath). It’s pricy, but you get two 16 oz bottles, and it comes with a 60-Day Satisfaction guarantee!
For SHOES & CLOTHES …
A nonenal fabric & shoe spray that eliminates “odor which is often associated with aging, sweat odor, shoe odor, etc.” The product is unscented, so leaves no overpowering perfumy fragrance. Interesting…
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For Your Head/Hair…
This hair shampoo purifies & deodorizes your scalp and hair by removing troublesome odors from their source “especially nonenal odor which is often associated with aging“.
For Everything Else…
If your couch, shoes, gym clothes, or anything in your house or car has a funky smell, try this. This peppermint odor remover spray is also available in lemongrass, fresh air, and lavender. I’ve tried them all and highly recommend this stuff!
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You don’t have to be old to be smelly. At 45 or 50 (I’m now 67) I had a closet crammed full of clothes that took on a smell of their own. Not pretty! After washing my clothes with baking soda added, and hanging them outside to be in the sun and wind (thanks to the efforts of my wife), I then purged old clothing from my closet leaving space between hangers for air to move and ventilate. Thereafter I made a point of putting clothes into the laundry bin after no more than a couple of light wears. Thank God, the stinky clothes problem was successfully dealt with.
I have been blessed/cursed with a keen sense of smell. So much so that I have to run from smelly environments. It’s the most difficult thing to have to share with a family member or friend that they smell bad, especially for those who are ‘nose blind’ and have no idea that they have a problem in the first place. It is an act of love to share the bad news as kindly as possible. It’s then their choice to resent you, or take action and appreciate your courage.
Washing your hair regularly is key. I am in my 50’s now but when I was training to be a hairstylist years ago older ladies would come into our lab for us to do a wash and set as we charged .50 cents. These ladies were only having their hair washed once a week or less when they came to us. Their hair and scalp was caked with dandruff, skin flakes, body oil, hair spray and cigarette smoke. It was not for the faint of heart. Our instructor put Dawn Dish Liquid in the back bar dispensers for the first two washings. All the ladies would comment “I’ve smelled that shampoo before somewhere” (yeah, when you washed the greasy skillet earlier today). We had to wash their hair 4 times to get it half way clean, some scalps were so full of dandruff (which is a fungal infection) that it caused plaques and if you disturbed the plaques the scalp would bleed. Those ladies were referred to their doctor. Don’t wash you hair one time a week if you can help it. Wash at least 3-4 times a week.
mom came to visit and hadnt seen her in 4 years and although she appears clean the strong urine smell lingers –& wow its hard to handle and i dont want to make her feel bad by mentioning it —
Oh, bless her heart. It can be a really awkward position for you to be in. Maybe she’s started leaking a bit but may not notice the smell herself. I’m sure she’d appreciate you gently asking her about it in private – it would be better hearing it from her daughter who loves her, rather than from a stranger who could be insensitive and possibly cause her embarrassment? Thanks for your comment Braylee and best of luck.
I think Nonenal smells like milk. When I worked in a school and had to deal with bullying kids about their ethnic food smells a teacher who grew up overseas said in her community there was common perception that British people on a Western, dairy heavy diet that we give off a distinctive and slightly unpleasant odour of old milk.
We often think we smell neutral but we don’t. I can smell a few diseases too. I know if a person has diabetes, heart disease or advanced cancer and I know the difference staph aureus, between staphylococcus aureus, streptococcus and E coli etc. We all smellof something but put it to the backs of our minds if we can
Interesting to think that we assume we have no smell, but actually do to others. I agree that certain medical conditions have an odor. I remember my mom having a peculiar odor when she had cancer. I didn’t know if it was medication she was taking that caused it, or the cancer itself. Thank you so much for your comment.
I’m 40 and I noticed that putting on any kind of perfume now makes me smell like this. It’s kind of saddening because I love perfume so much. 🙁
If you’re over a certain age, you shouldn’t wear any perfume because it just magnifies old lady smell. I just keep myself clean with bathing and using regular unscented soap. Keeps me smelling normal lol.
Awww, I’m sorry you’re not able to wear perfume anymore. Our bodies are changing and it affects us all differently. Maybe in a few years your body will go through another change and you’ll be able to wear it again, you think? I’m glad you found a solution. Thanks so much for reading and commenting!
It’s entirely possible this is just your own perception of your scent, rather than your actual scent. Don’t be scared of wearing a different style of perfume as you age – this is your time to wear those beautiful classy ones like First by Van Cleef & Arpels, Dahlia by Givenchy or Si by Armani. All different and all exude confidence and mature femininity. I used to think my house stank like old smokey oil and then I realized I had a tooth abscess that caused lengthy sinus issues.
Definitely food for thought, Gus. You made me laugh – not about having a tooth abscess and sinus issues, but that you were tricked by the odor it caused and had blamed your house. Thanks for reading and commenting.
I’m 65 and just starting noticing this odor a few months ago. None of the above, except for not drinking enough water apply to me. I got some persimmon soap (for 16$) from Japan. It is odorless and has done nothing to alleviate the problem.
Jerri, hmmm. Do you take any medication? Could it be related to that?You know how asparagus can cause your urine to smell awful? Maybe meds can do the same. Have you checked with your doctor?